Rafael Corney

What is it that women find attractive in a man!

by Rafael Corney, dating coach

It’s important to be nice.
It’s important to be funny.
It’s important to be intelligent.
And, it’s important to be cocky.

That’s right, gents, cocky!

You know the type.
What it’s not is arrogant. It’s an overall presence –

• a half-smile,
• a lift in the walk,
• a head held high,

with a confidence that oozes from every pore.

I’ll tell ya, guys, cockiness is like flypaper.

Irresistible.
Good girls, bad girls, and everything in between – doesn’t matter.
When you’ve got the cocky-thing down pat,
you’ll have too many dates instead of too few.

So, you ask me, how do I get this cocky thing working for me?

Ahhh, never thought you’d ask.

Follow this advice and your cocky days are here!

1. Project an overall fun and easy-going attitude.
   The main characteristic in being cocky is your overall physical
   aura and body language.
   But be careful not to slip down the hill into the realm of
   (boo-hiss) arrogance.






2. When you meet a woman, be nice enough,
   but make it clear in your pleasant, confident way that your
   business takes priority over her presence.
   Example:
   if you are taking a jog through the park and
   some super babe winks at you and says hello,
   nod back with your cocky-little smile and
   keep running.
   You better believe you’ll find the babe
   same time same station tomorrow.





3. When talking to a woman,
   listen thoughtfully to what she says, but for God’s sake,
   don’t fawn over her every word.
   In fact, disagree with her!
   Note I said disagree as opposed to argue.
   Argue goes along with arrogance while disagree is intriguing and
   something she is not used to.




4. Tease and joke around.
   Not only is teasing fun, it is also charged with nuance and
   questions as to the real meaning of the conversation.
   You’ll keep her on her toes, wondering “Does he or doesn’t he.”

There you go, gents.
My advice for becoming that cocky,
confident guy that woman can’t resist.