Rafael Corney

It’s time to check your dating pulse.

That’s right. I’ve put together a bunch of scenarios here and I’m going to ask you to read them, and then make some selections as to how you would respond.

Then I’ll talk to you about your responses, and explain why some are better or worse than others, and what you can do to improve your chances of dating success!!

So let’s go get’em!

1)

You are in hog heaven.
You are at the corner watering hole, and sitting at a table just a few feet away from you are three gorgeous ladies.
Once you get your drooling under control, you decide that this is it.
No more Mr. Shy Guy – you are going to start a scintillating conversation in hopes that they ask you to join them.
So, you stroll over and:

2)

There’s this woman you like – a lot –
and you’ve been out with her a few times.
It seems to you that you get along well, but you cannot tell if she likes you as much as you hope she does.
What can you do?

3)

You’re in a very long line at Starbuck’s, but fortunately, there is this really awesome girl in line in front of you and you strike up a conversation.
You guys joke and flirt, and you are sure she likes you.
Soon you will be at the counter; you want this girl’s phone number.
What do you do?

4)

While taking a stroll in the park on a first date with a new lady
friend, she turns to you and asks: “So what do you do?”

5)

It’s a dream come true.
You’re actually talking to this local television personality at a local charity event and you want to ask her out.
What’s the best approach?

6)

Now it’s time for the ole’ elevator trick.
You are alone in an elevator in a high rise with a gorgeous woman and you simply can’t let this incredible chance pass you by.
What do you do?

7)

Ah – it’s the first kiss time.
At least, that’s what you want.
You’ve had a couple dates with this woman you like a lot.
First was coffee, and this time, dinner.
You are crazy about her, but doing a good job of staying cool.
The thing is, you can’t get a handle on how she feels about you.
What can you do to find out?

Have you ever had a woman give you her phone number out of the blue without you asking?
We’re talking manna from heaven, right?
But, there is this one minor complication – what do you do now?
Yep – in the bank line, you and the gorgeous woman in front of you in line have struck up a conversation and discovered some chemistry between you.
So, she reaches in to her purse, hands you her business card, and
says “Call me” as she leaves the line and walks up to the teller.
Well, before we get to the answers of how do you proceed,
the first thing I want you to do is get your jaw up off the ground!

9)

Alright.
We’re, or I should say, you’re moving along.
You’ve met this positively charming, bright, pretty woman, and you’ve done the coffee thing, the first dinner thing, and now you’re into the second dinner thing with a pretty heady kiss at the end of the date.
I mean, we’re talking some real attraction.
But, you keep things respectable, and say goodnight at the door.
Now the question becomes – what do you do next?

10)

Here’s one you’re not going to like.
You’re sitting in a coffee shop waiting for this babe you met in the elevator to meet you.
Your date was for 10 am and I t’s now 10:45.
You feel stupid and humiliated, and think everyone in the whole place knows you’ve been stood up (not true).
What do you do now?