Listen up, guys.
Girls want bad boys.
That’s right.They want bad boys and they want them baaaaad.

I have this one lady friend who manages to get all kinds of guys collapsing at her feet, and I’m talking some really nice gents.
These are the kind of guys who wine her, dine her, and shower her with flowers, perfume and gifts.
But does she want these “good guys?”
No way, Jose.
She wants them down, dirty and bad.
And she’s not alone.

Why, you ask?
What’s a nice looking woman like this doing in a zone like that?
I have a few theories which I’ll pass on to you below:

1. Whether they admit it or not, women love excitement!
   They love the ongoing surprise element, wondering when he’s going to call, if he’s going to ask her out, will he be drunk or stoned when she sees him.
2. Women love the raw, hunky, masculinity associated with the proverbial bad boy.
   Not that all bad boys fit this physical mold, but the dirtier, the messier the hair, and the grubbier the clothes, the faster she’ll come running.
3. Traveling to the edge, and maybe even over: the good girl relishes the pure thrill of traveling to the edge with her bad boy. Not that she’ll participate in his hard drinking, wild riding, heavy smoking practices, but boy does she like to go along for the wild ride!
4. Her nurturing side revs into overdrive.
   Many women ascribe to the “fix-it” style of relationship, and what better to fix than a bad boy?

Aha – want to be a bad boy?
Okay, here are a few things you can do to take on that persona

• Dress the part: this is no time for dockers and starched shirts. We’re talking jeans and t-shirts – the grubbier the better.
• Hygiene: this is a tough one because you certainly don’t want to smell like the town dump, but a little BO is an unbelievable aphrodisiac.Also, get a little grease under those fingernails, like you’ve spent the day in the garage crawling around car engines.
• Getting the voice and lingo down: Spend an evening or two in a biker bar.
  Listen to how the bad boy bikers talk.Copy them.
• Take up smoking: this may be a tough one, but you can always just swish the smoke around in your mouth rather than inhale.
• Transportation: speaking of bikers, get your own bike, or if that’s not an option, find yourself a souped up car with a LOUD muffler.
• Drink beer with whisky chasers: need I say more?
• Music: hard core, acid rock, and turn it up loud!!!
• Be erratic: be unreliable as hell in calling her.
  Tell her you’ll call at a certain time, and then don’t call.
  Call her in the middle of the night.
  Tell her you want to see her and then never follow up.Get her on a wild goose chase – AFTER YOU!!!!

So, fellas, there you are, my advice on how to become a bad boy and have the girls flocking to your door.

I’ve Got a Secret: And It’s Not Deodorant

How your smell can help you !

Every article you read about attracting women, what women want, being a successful dater, and so on will tell you that being cleaned, spit and polished, and well-groomed are unequivocal essentials to success.

Guess what guys, I’m going to tell you that a little body odor goes a long way.
That’s right – BO, as in pits, sweat, grease and grime.

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Some ways to save your ….

Okay guys, you know the type.
She starts out really cool, confident, even detached: traits which, of course, draw us even cooler, more confident, and detached to the max guys like flies.
Then, little by little, things change.
Instead of casual conversations left comfortably open-ended, she starts to try and nail you down for when your next phone chat is going to be, or the next time you’re going to get together.

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What is it that women find attractive in a man!

by Rafael Corney, dating coach

It’s important to be nice.
It’s important to be funny.
It’s important to be intelligent.
And, it’s important to be cocky.

That’s right, gents, cocky!

You know the type.
What it’s not is arrogant. It’s an overall presence –

• a half-smile,
• a lift in the walk,
• a head held high,

with a confidence that oozes from every pore.

I’ll tell ya, guys, cockiness is like flypaper.

Irresistible.
Good girls, bad girls, and everything in between – doesn’t matter.
When you’ve got the cocky-thing down pat,
you’ll have too many dates instead of too few.

So, you ask me, how do I get this cocky thing working for me?

Ahhh, never thought you’d ask.

Follow this advice and your cocky days are here!

1. Project an overall fun and easy-going attitude.
   The main characteristic in being cocky is your overall physical
   aura and body language.
   But be careful not to slip down the hill into the realm of
   (boo-hiss) arrogance.






2. When you meet a woman, be nice enough,
   but make it clear in your pleasant, confident way that your
   business takes priority over her presence.
   Example:
   if you are taking a jog through the park and
   some super babe winks at you and says hello,
   nod back with your cocky-little smile and
   keep running.
   You better believe you’ll find the babe
   same time same station tomorrow.





3. When talking to a woman,
   listen thoughtfully to what she says, but for God’s sake,
   don’t fawn over her every word.
   In fact, disagree with her!
   Note I said disagree as opposed to argue.
   Argue goes along with arrogance while disagree is intriguing and
   something she is not used to.




4. Tease and joke around.
   Not only is teasing fun, it is also charged with nuance and
   questions as to the real meaning of the conversation.
   You’ll keep her on her toes, wondering “Does he or doesn’t he.”

There you go, gents.
My advice for becoming that cocky,
confident guy that woman can’t resist.

10 Ways to lose before you start!

That’s right, guys. You can do it, you really can – IF you try hard
enough. I mean, won’t you be proud to mount the plaque for the
Dating Loser of the Year on YOUR bathroom wall? Let’s take a look
at the 10 things you need to do to win.

1. Use a counterfeit photo: That’s right – on your profile paste a
   photo of your son, cousin, brother, best friend – whoever is
   one handsome dude and when your date shows up you tell
   her you had plastic surgery after a car wreck.
2. Lie on your profile: An extension of number 1, lie about your
   education, interests, height, religion, and whatever elseis
   on there to present the perfect, and fake, persona.
3. Be a slob: When you meet her, make sure you haven’t
   showered in days, and wear dirty, wrinkled old clothes.
4. Arrive late:a Come swaggering in with attitude, find her, and
   move on to # 5.
5. Borrow money: Tell her you stopped at the ATM but don’t have
   any money in your account, so you need to borrow money for
   a mocha cappuccino.
6. Set up your laptop: As soon as you sit down, set up your laptop,
   and proceed to send emails and instant message people the
   whole time you are with her
7. Talk about yourself – non-stop: That’s right – talk, talk, talk – about
   your job, the latest NASCAR race, drinking beer with your buddies,
   whatever. And, make SURE you don’t ask her a single thing
   about herself.
8. Be negative: While you are talking non-stop – make sure it is about
   everything negative – how you hate your boss, what a loser
   your last girlfriend was, and how crummy the weather ALWAYS is!
9. Act like a jerk: Be rude to everyone and anyone. Kick the blind man’s
   dog, yell at a kid, argue with the server or counterperson.
   That’s right – show your true colors!
10. Get down and dirty: In between instant messages, start talking like
    you were having phone sex – only now it’s Starbuck’s sex!!

So, my friend, if you want to win the Dating Loser of the Year Award, be sure
to follow these guidelines and I’ll be sending you that plaque pronto.

Go get ‘em!

Be purposeful

Gentlemen: now hear me through. I am going to talk to you about
perhaps the most important thing you need to do to become a master
dater like me. The key to success in this game is simply this:
keep it purposeful.

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This isn’t your Daddy’s world anymore. That’s right. This isn’t justabout picking up the phone to contact that sexy babe. Now there are options – a dizzying array of them, in fact. Traditional phones, cell phones, text messaging, instant messaging, email, MySpace – wow! What’s a guy supposed to do? Okay then, let me tell you about the options from my viewpoint.

1. Traditional phone: There are two points here. First is the fact of talking to her live. Second is the inconvenience of being tied down. If the latter doesn’t bother you, then the plus here is getting her right here, right now, and talking on your time terms. Of course, she might not be there. Then what? Leave a message? Absolutely not. Again, keep it on your terms and keep calling. But, there is one caveat. What if she has caller ID? What if she doesn’t want to talk to you? In that case, don’t make a fool of yourself by calling ten million times.Call once a day and leave it at that.
2. Cell phone: Everything I said above holds true, but with a cell phone,you’re not tied down.
3. Text messaging: Text messaging is cool. Text messaging is where it’s at. Keep it cool, and keep it short. A simple “Hey” is enough to get started. And don’t ask her out; your objective should be to just make a brief contact. You’ll tantalize her,I promise.
4. Instant messaging:Be careful with this one. If you use it for early contact, again, keep it brief and short. Lots of people get annoyed at the intrusion of IM, myself included.
5. Email: I think email is in sum, the best option. You and she can communicate on your own time, “speak” without pressure, and set the stage for future, more direct contact. Now, guys, one important thing here. If she doesn’t already have your phone number, don’t, don’t, DON’T say “Here is my phone number” in the text of the email. Rather, do, do, DO set up a signature block that has an impressive title, organization, and phone number where you can be reached.
6. MySpace:I have to mention MySpace.

Wow – talk about clichés.
But men, it’s true!

If you want to be successful in the dating arena,
you’ve first got to get yourself together

so you’re a prize package that women will salivate for.
You follow me?

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